Most marriages where sex is no longer satisfactory it has something to do with men’s ego. Most men are never willing to listen to a suggestion from their wives, and woe onto the woman if she comes up with something new. Questions like:
Men: Ladies know their bodies and most already know what drives them crazy. Most women know where you can touch them to make them scream. Most women are much aware of their erotic zones and are willing to guide you if at all you give her an open forum to share with you. Men, be willing to learn from her, ask her, let her guide you through the map of her erotic zone. Do not give her a hard time to learn of her anatomy.
Men: If you are weak by any chance, listen to her suggestion even if it means visiting a sexologist or seeking help. Drop your ego a little for the sake of the marriage or relationship. It is not like the world will come to an end if she teaches you something new.
AND LADIES: Approach this with caution. Maintain your well boundaries. Do not suggest something new when the heat of the moment is near to exploding, most men will not take that lightly. Do not compare her with any other man who has ever given you more than you are getting. Do not bring up the topic when the man is stressed, tired or low for whatever reasons.
As a couple too, listen to each other, learn from each other and help each other to explore each other. There is a lot of joy in cooperating in marital unions.
Sex is meant to be enjoyed, not a task or just to bring babies.
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- where did you learn this?
- What were you talking about?
- Am I not a man enough?
- Have you become a whore? Etc.. will be the order of the moment.
Men: Ladies know their bodies and most already know what drives them crazy. Most women know where you can touch them to make them scream. Most women are much aware of their erotic zones and are willing to guide you if at all you give her an open forum to share with you. Men, be willing to learn from her, ask her, let her guide you through the map of her erotic zone. Do not give her a hard time to learn of her anatomy.
Men: If you are weak by any chance, listen to her suggestion even if it means visiting a sexologist or seeking help. Drop your ego a little for the sake of the marriage or relationship. It is not like the world will come to an end if she teaches you something new.
AND LADIES: Approach this with caution. Maintain your well boundaries. Do not suggest something new when the heat of the moment is near to exploding, most men will not take that lightly. Do not compare her with any other man who has ever given you more than you are getting. Do not bring up the topic when the man is stressed, tired or low for whatever reasons.
As a couple too, listen to each other, learn from each other and help each other to explore each other. There is a lot of joy in cooperating in marital unions.
Sex is meant to be enjoyed, not a task or just to bring babies.
Feel free to use the comment box ๐
Let's hear from you all.
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