Saturday Sex Talk 18+

Sex is usually initiated by the husband in the traditional African society. The woman is to patiently wait for the man to be in the mood before "nacking". Even if she's in the mood, she has to either bottle it in or give coded signs to the husband of which the husband usually can't interpret.
She patiently wait' for the man to initiate because initiating sex may be interpreted by the "ignorant" husband that she's cheap or promiscuous"

Men are direct thinkers. They usually miss out on the coded messages the woman gives demanding for sex. How I wish every woman can understand this.

Coded signs like starting a conversation about how you guys met, wearing a transparent nighty, standing beside the TV in your transparent nighty when he's watching his favourite football game or movie are most times lost. Some women will prepare his favourite meal and expect to be rewarded with sex. The guy enjoys it and remembers how his mother cooked it and tells her thank you- he missed your coded message.

Some women are a bit more direct, they will snuggle their naked bodies close to their naked husbands and wait for him to reciprocate. The man snuggles back and sleeps off, missing the coded message again.

However men are a bit more direct, so direct that the woman has to quickly get in the mood for sex and most times not satisfied.

Now how do we meet in the middle and get maximum satisfaction without feeling cheap and not satisfying your Mrs.

1. Madam try to be direct. If you are in the mood, tell him. It only takes a split second for the blood to start rushing in the right direction and for him to have an erection.

After serving his favorite meal, tell him, "Honey I need you to fuck me tonight".
After wearing your sexy transparent nighty. Tell him, "Dude, I wore this to give you an erection, the sex tonight has to be good". You don't have to use my words, but be creative, be direct and straight forward. That's the way most men think.

2. Talk to him about sex and how you want it to be. Rub your tits on his bare back and tell him to report in the room for a show down. Just be plain direct.

3. Don't try to initiate your wife into sex by just tapping her and spreading her legs. No! By all means No! Start the message early. Most women are wired for "drama" (Please this is not derogatory). They want you to play around it, have a romantic conversation on how you guys met, go out for a dinner, or gist while you eat the meal she prepared for you.
This is the way most women are wired, they like the journey. The journey is to get them wet and set them in the right mood for the destination - sex.

4. Communicate, communicate, communicate. This is where sex starts from. It first starts from the mind before the real action takes place.
So madam, don't be afraid of initiating sex; be direct be straight forward. Mr. Man don't think your wife is cheap when she demands for sex. Even if she demands for it 5 times a week, man up! You can do it!
You will succeed